.Yet what Astrid doesn't realize however is an honest truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who possesses 2 boys-- may verify: The simple fact that your connection along with your parents adjustments as well as evolves as you both grow older, and also perhaps for the better. "Your globe centers around [your kids] when they are actually children [as well as] it is actually so much job yet beautiful," O'Hara says. "Later on, you truly miss that, because then you can't get them to do anything you want them to perform, considering that they start creating their own minds, their personal opinions." And also eventually, you wind up in the area O'Hara, whose kids remain in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself today, capable to gain from her little ones. "They are actually merely such amazing young fellas," she mentions. "I am actually not their friend, however I really love possessing chats along with them as well as being familiar with just how they think of life.".